Bowdoin college dating scene
If you’re interested, all it takes is a slow pack-up-and-hang-back after class to initiate conversation.
Find out where the hot spots are each night of the week(end), and make sure to show up every once in a while.
Throwing Harvard into the equation just makes everything worse.
Gender roles have come a long way, but anachronistic perceptions about inequality of the sexes still exist, especially when it comes to sexual attraction within coed circles of super accomplished 18-22 year olds.
On top of it, you might really connect with one of them.
Hooking up with one or two of your hallmates within the first few days of school, however, is a definite no-no.
But after college, you should expect him to take you out if he’s serious about being with you, not just take you back to his apartment.
When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.